Aksar ye jumla hum sunte Hain aur bachpan se sunte aa Rahe Hain ki "Jo Hota Hai Behtar Hota Hai". Kya waqayi aisa hai? Kya Har Faisle Mein Allah Ki Bhalai Chhupi Hoti Hai ya Allah Jo Karta Hai bande ke Haq me Behtar Karta Hai? Aaiye Qur'an aur Hadees ki Roshni me Padhen ki Mushkilon Mein Chhupi Allah Ki Hikmat Kya hai Aur Jo Hota Hai Wahi Behtar Hota Hai Aakhir kaise?
Zindagi mein aksar aise waqiyat pesh aate hain jo hamari samajh se bahar hote hain. Kabhi achanak koi badi khushi mil jati hai aur kabhi koi aisi pareshani aa jati hai jiske bare mein humne socha bhi nahi hota. Kabhi kuchh Aisa ho jata Hai Jo Hamare Gumaan me Bhi Nahi hota Hai Aur Us waqt Aksar insano ki ye Soch Hoti hai:
- “Kaash maine aisa kar liya hota…”
- “Kaash waisa faisla na kiya hota…”
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Allah sabse behtar faisala karta hai |
Lekin haqeeqat ye hai ki insan sirf zahiri cheezon ko dekhta hai, jabki Allah Ta‘ala har cheez ka anjaam jaanta hai. Humein nahi maloom kis cheez mein hamare liye bhalai hai aur kis mein nuqsan, lekin Allah Rabbul Aalameen sab kuchh jaanta hai.
Allah Ki Hikmat Har Cheez Par Haawi Hai
Aksar Aisa Hota Hai ki Kabhi hum kisi cheez ko apne liye bahut achha samajhte hain, lekin wahi cheez hamare deen aur aakhirat ke liye nuqsan ka sabab ban sakti hai.
Aur kabhi koi mushkil ya kami hume buri lagti hai, lekin usi mein Allah ne hamare liye khair chhupa rakhi hoti hai.
Qur’an Ki Roshan Taleem
Allah Ta‘ala Qur’an mein farmata hai:“Aur mumkin hai tum kisi cheez ko napasand karo aur wahi tumhare liye behtar ho, aur mumkin hai tum kisi cheez ko pasand karo aur wahi tumhare liye buri ho. Allah jaanta hai aur tum nahi jaante.”
(Surah Al-Baqarah 2:216)
Ye aayat momin ko sukoon deti hai ki har haal mein Allah ka faisla hikmat par mabni hota hai।
Allah Kisi Par Uski Taaqat Se Zyada Bojh Nahi Daalta
Insaan kabhi kabhi mushkilon se ghabra jata hai aur sochta hai ki meri zindagi mein itni pareshaniyan kyun hain। Lekin Allah Ta‘ala ne Qur’an mein wada farmaya:
“Allah kisi jaan par uski taaqat se zyada bojh nahi daalta.”
(Surah Al-Baqarah 2:286)
Yani jo bhi halaat Allah ne hamare liye likhe hain, unhe bardasht karne ki taaqat bhi Allah ne di hai।
Har Tamanna Poori Ho Jana Zaruri Nahi
Aaj aksar log sochte hain:
- Kaash mere paas zyada paisa hota
- Kaash meri bhi ek mehngi gaadi hoti
- Kaash mera bada ghar hota
- Kaash mujhe duniya ki har ne’mat mil jati
Lekin kya hum jaante hain ki un cheezon ke milne ke baad hamari zindagi kaisi hoti?
Ho sakta hai:
- Daulat aane ke baad insan ghuroor mein aa jaye
- Aaram milne ke baad namaz aur deen se door ho jaye
- Shohrat milne ke baad gunaahon mein pad jaye
- Duniya ki mohabbat aakhirat ko bhula de
Isliye kabhi kabhi Allah kuchh cheezen hume nahi deta kyunki wahi hamare haq mein behtar hota hai।
Momin Ka Har Haal Behtar Hota Hai
Hazrat Suhaib Rumi R.a se riwayat hai ki Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Momin ka maamla bhi ajeeb hai. Uska har haal uske liye behtar hota hai. Agar use khushi mile to shukr karta hai aur ye uske liye behtar hota hai. Aur agar use takleef pahunche to sabr karta hai aur ye bhi uske liye behtar hota hai.”
(Sahih Muslim, Hadees No. 2999)
Ye hadees momin ko ye dars deti hai ki Allah ka banda har haal mein fayde mein rehta hai — bas shart ye hai ki wo Allah par yaqeen rakhe।
“Kaash” Kehna Kabhi Kabhi Shaytan Ka Darwaza Khulta Hai
Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Mazboot momin Allah ke nazdeek kamzor momin se zyada behtar aur mehboob hai… Aur agar tumhe koi cheez pahunche to ye mat kaho: ‘Kaash maine aisa kiya hota to aisa ho jata’, balki kaho: ‘Allah ne jo muqaddar kiya aur jo chaha wahi hua’, kyunki ‘kaash’ shaytan ke amal ka darwaza kholta hai.”
(Sahih Muslim, Hadees No. 2664)
Yani baar baar maazi par afsos karna aur “kaash” kehkar dil ko todna momin ka tareeqa nahi।
Duniya Nahi, Aakhirat Ki Kamyabi Zaruri Hai
Aaj duniya ki chamak damak ne insaan ko bahut mashghool kar diya hai। Har koi zyada maal, zyada shohrat aur zyada aaram chahta hai। Lekin asal kamyabi duniya nahi balki aakhirat ki kamyabi hai।
Allah Ta‘ala farmata hai:
“Jo jahannam se bacha liya gaya aur jannat mein daakhil kar diya gaya wahi kamyaab hai.”
(Surah Aal-e-Imran 3:185)
Isliye agar duniya ki koi cheez hume Allah se door kar de to uska na milna hi hamare liye behtar hai।
Allah Par Bharosa Sukoon Deta Hai
Jab banda ye yaqeen rakh leta hai ki:
- Allah jo karta hai hikmat se karta hai
- Allah mere liye behtar faisla karta hai
- Allah mujhe kabhi zaya nahi karega
To uska dil sukoon mein aa jata hai।
Tawakkul Ka Matlab
Tawakkul ka matlab ye nahi ki insaan koshish chhod de, balki poori mehnat karne ke baad natije ko Allah ke hawale kar dena।
Hamari Soch Mehdood Hai, Allah Ka Ilm Be-Had Hai
Hum sirf aaj ko dekhte hain, Allah poori zindagi aur aakhirat ko dekh raha hota hai। Isliye kabhi kisi cheez ke na milne par mayoos nahi hona chahiye।
Ho sakta hai:
- Jis naukri ko tumne kho diya wahi tumhare liye bachao ho
- Jis rishte ke tootne par tum roye wahi tumhari hifazat ho
- Jis mushkil ko tum azaab samajh rahe ho wahi tumhare gunaahon ka kaffara ho
Kuchh Duniyawi Misaalein Jo Tawakkul Ko Mazboot Karti Hain
1. Imtihan Mein Fail Ho Jana
Kabhi koi student poori mehnat karta hai, raat din padhai karta hai, lekin phir bhi exam mein fail ho jata hai। Us waqt use lagta hai sab kuchh khatam ho gaya।
Lekin baad mein wahi shakhs kisi aur field mein jata hai aur Allah uske liye usmein zyada kamyabi likh deta hai। Kabhi jis cheez ko hum nakaami samajhte hain wahi hamare liye naye aur behtar raste khol deti hai।
👉🏻 Bashart ke insan apni mehnat karta Rahe,Koshish na chhode.kyunki Allah bhi unhi ka Saath deta hai Jo Koshish aur Allah par puri tawakkul karte hai,
2. Naukri Ya Business Mein Nuqsan
Kayi logon ka business achanak band ho jata hai ya unhe job se nikal diya jata hai। Us waqt insan toot jata hai aur sochta hai:
“Mere saath hi aisa kyun hua?”
Lekin kuchh waqt baad Allah uske liye halal aur behtar rizq ka zariya bana deta hai। Kabhi purani naukri ya business hamare deen, sehat ya ghar walon ke liye nuqsan ka sabab hota hai aur Allah hume usse bacha leta hai।
3. Kisi Ka Rishta Ya Shaadi Na Ho Pana
Kabhi insan kisi rishte ko apni zindagi ki sabse badi khushi samajhta hai, lekin wo rishta toot jata hai ya shaadi nahi ho pati।
Us waqt dil bahut dukhta hai, lekin baad mein pata chalta hai ki agar wo rishta ho jata to zindagi azaab ban jati। Allah apne bande ko un cheezon se bhi bachata hai jo zahir mein achhi lagti hain lekin andar se nuqsan hoti hain।
👉🏻 Allah Apne momin bandon se mohabbat karta hai aur jisme hamari bhalai hai wahi hame ata karta hai.
4. Paisa Na Milna Bhi Kabhi Rehmat Hoti Hai
Kabhi hum sochte hain:
“Kaash mere paas bahut paisa hota…”
Lekin ho sakta hai zyada daulat insan ko ghuroor, gunaah aur Allah se ghaflat mein daal deti। Bahut se log duniya paa kar bhi sukoon nahi paa sake।
Aur bahut se gareeb log Allah ke qareeb aur dil ke sukoon wale hote hain।
5. Kisi Safar Ya Kaam Ka Na Ho Pana
Kabhi insan kisi jagah jana chahta hai, koi deal karna chahta hai ya koi plan banata hai lekin Aakhiri waqt par sab cancel ho jata hai।
Baad mein pata chalta hai ki agar wo safar ya kaam ho jata to bada nuqsan ho sakta tha। Allah Ta‘ala kabhi kabhi hume un cheezon se rok deta hai jisme hamare liye burai hoti hai।
Tawakkul Ka Asli Matlab
Momin ka kaam sirf mehnat karna hai, natija Allah par chhod dena hai। Agar cheez mil jaye to shukr aur na mile to sabr।
Kyuki:
“Allah jo karta hai hikmat aur bhalai ke saath karta hai.”
Conclusion:
Momin ka kaam Allah par yaqeen rakhna hai। Har haal mein ye sochna chahiye:
“Jo Allah ne mere liye likha hai wahi mere haq mein behtar hai.”
Agar koi cheez mil jaye to shukr karein aur agar na mile to sabr karein, kyunki Allah ka har faisla hikmat aur rahmat se bharpur hota hai।
Duniya ki har khwahish poori ho jana zaruri nahi, kyunki kabhi kabhi jis cheez ko hum apni kamyabi samajhte hain wahi hamare deen aur aakhirat ke liye nuqsan ka sabab ban sakti hai।
Allah Ta‘ala hume apni taqdeer par razi rehne aur har haal mein us par bharosa karne ki taufeeq ata farmaye। Aameen।
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FAQs:
1. Kya jo hota hai wahi hamare liye behtar hota hai?
Ji haan, momin ke liye Allah ka har faisla hikmat aur bhalai par mabni hota hai। Allah behtar jaanta hai kis cheez mein hamare liye fayda hai aur kis mein nuqsan।
2. Mushkilein kyun aati hain?
Mushkilein imtihan, gunaahon ka kaffara aur bande ko Allah ke qareeb karne ka zariya hoti hain।
3. Agar koi cheez na mile to kya karna chahiye?
Allah par bharosa rakhna chahiye aur ye yaqeen rakhna chahiye ki Allah ne jo faisla kiya wahi hamare liye behtar hai।
4. “Kaash” kehna kaisa hai?
Har waqt maazi par afsos karte rehna aur “kaash” kehna shaytan ke waswason ka sabab ban sakta hai। Momim ko Allah ki taqdeer par razi rehna chahiye।
5. Islam mein asli kamyabi kya hai?
Asli kamyabi aakhirat ki kamyabi hai — yani Allah ki raza aur jannat ka hasil hona।

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